Have you ever heard of relationship attachment styles? People love taking relationship surveys, or character personality tests. They do this to not only better understand themselves, but also to better understand others in relationships. Though these tests can be fun, are they helpful? I would say most are not, but some are. Recently, I came […]
Transform your relationship by becoming an active listener. Sometimes we just need to tell ourselves to shut up and listen. Active listening is a key building block to better communication. Bad communication I believe is the number one cause for divorce. The challenge with communication, is people believe because they know how to talk, they […]
What are you looking for when searching for a small group? What are signs of a great small group? Small groups are critical to maintaining a successful relationship. It doesn’t matter if you are single, dating or married, your community plays an important role. This is a key principle I share in my book Chasing […]
What can you do successfully without having knowledge in what you are doing? Imagine for a moment needing surgery, and your surgeon is just winging it? Never having guidance or training in their profession, what is the likely hood they would be successful? What is the likely hood you would let them operate on you? When […]
What are love languages? In 1992, Gary Chapman wrote a book entitled, The 5 Love Languages. God eventually would use this book to help countless couples and singles better understand the different expressions of love. People give and receive love in different ways. Better understanding how you give and receive love, and how others give […]
Is it possible to get so used to looking at the wrong thing, that you forget what a good thing looks like? The question we ask in this podcast episode is what does a healthy relationship look like? At first glance this may seem like an obvious question, but in actuality it’s not. With the […]
Have you ever felt like your man or woman lacks ambition? The word ambition means to have a strong desire to achieve something. When a person or spouse lacks ambition they lack motivation, and struggle to achieve or accomplish goals. Within a relationship this can make for a difficult partnership, because in marriage you work […]
How do you respond when someone shows interest you? Have you ever had someone show interest in you through some form of direct interaction? Whether asking for your phone number, showing interest on social media, or an old fashion love letter, these moments can be flattering or embarrassing, welcomed or appalling depending on the situation, but […]
Break ups can be hard! It can be difficult letting go of a relationship after a hard break up, especially when your heart is for it to work. Most people when they meet someone they like; the hope is they will be the “ONE,” that the relationship will lead to marriage. Unfortunately this is not […]
Why There Is Division In Relationships! Relationships can be a beautiful thing, but they can also be frustrating. One thing that can be frustrating is when you feel like you are going in a different direction than your partner. A primary cause to division in a relationship is when couples don’t share the same core […]